Buried inside of us all are deep inner words. We all have the capacity to talk to ourselves from deep without us. These words are the most destructive words we will ever find. We seldom tell anyone what these words are, because they are very hurtful damaging words. These words are ones that more from the heart. Not a wounded heart but a heart that is sharing what it is experiencing.

“I don’t like that very well” is one way. Another way is “This isn’t working for me.”

A wounded heart blames and demands that they other person does what they want them to do to make themselves happy.

Deep inside all us are the qualities we want to have: the ability to love, be kind, cherish, to have empathy, and to behave. We all have these because we are born with them.  In our innocents, we see the virtues of child likeness inside us.

The experiences we have take a tole on your minds, and we accumulate wealth in unforgiveness, anger, hurt, and blame.  These areas of our minds are filled with negative emotions, that when activated by a current event, create behavior that is hard to stop.

Learning to talk from your inner most self is not easy.  It takes practice to notice what is going on deep inside you.

Principles that work with this principle are:

Talking to yourself as if you are your own best friend